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Etymology of Gray

What does the name Gray mean?

Gray is a name, who ancestors come from the noble Boernician clans of the Scottish-English border region. It is a name for a person who had gray hair. In Scotland, the surname Gray actually came from two different derivations. As a nickname, it came from the Gaelic word riabhach, which means gray. As a habitational name, it derived from the place named Graye, in Calvados. This place-name came from the Gallo-Roman personal name, Gratus, which means welcome or pleasing. Gray is therefore a nickname and a habitation name, which belongs to the category of hereditary surnames.

Early Origins of the Gray family

The surname Gray was first found in Northumberland, with Anschatel Groy of Haute Saone, Normandy, who fought with William the Conqueror in 1066 AD. After the conquest, Anschatel Groy settled in Chillingham, Northumberland. He was from the department of Haute Saone called Gray, sometimes Groy, or Croy, in Normandy.

From this house sprang the Grays of Suffolk, Kent, Tankerville, and Stamford. Some of the earliest records of the name include: Richard de Grey (born c. 1140); and his son, Sir Henry de Grey of Grays Thurrock, Essex (1155-1219), a favourite courtier of King John of England; and his son, Richard de Grey (died 1271) of Codnor, Derbyshire, Lord Warden of the Cinque Ports in 1258; and his brother Sir John de Grey (died 1266), an English soldier and High Sheriff of Bedfordshire and Buckinghamshire (1238-1239) and of High Sheriff of Herefordshire (1252-1253).

John de Gray (died 1214) was Bishop of Norwich in Norfolk, and later became Archbishop of Canterbury, but was never confirmed. Backworth in Northumberland was home to one branch of the family. "This place formerly belonged to Tynemouth priory, and afterwards to the Grey family, by whom it was sold to the late Duke of Northumberland, for £95,000." 1

Barcombe in Sussex was another ancient family seat. "It comprises 3106 acres, whereof 305 are common or waste; and is bounded on the east by the river Ouse, on which is a flour-mill that has existed since the Conquest, and has been for more than a century in the possession of the family of Mr. Russell Gray, who has also established an extensive oilmill at an expense of £10,000." 1

Early History of the Gray family

This web page shows only a small excerpt of our Gray research. Another 119 words (8 lines of text) covering the years 1248, 1250, 1255, 1266, 1268, 1282, 1296, 1305, 1323, 1353, 1362, 1377, 1380, 1387, 1390, 1392, 1416, 1424, 1427, 1437, 1439, 1440, 1445, 1449, 1451, 1454, 1469, 1490, 1501, 1505, 1582, 1590, 1599, 1611, 1612, 1614, 1621, 1622, 1623, 1624, 1628, 1630, 1639, 1657, 1660, 1663, 1673, 1674, 1676 and 1890 are included under the topic Early Gray History in all our PDF Extended History products and printed products wherever possible.

Gray Spelling Variations

Boernician names that evolved in the largely preliterate Middle Ages are often marked by considerable spelling variations. Gray has been spelled Gray, Grey, Groy, Croy, Graye and others.

Early Notables of the Gray family

Notable among the family at this time was

  • Andrew Gray, 1st Lord Gray (c.1390-1469), a Scottish nobleman, politician and diplomat
  • Sir Andrew Gray (d. 1445) of Fowlis, Perthshire

Gray World Ranking

In the United States, the name Gray is the 69th most popular surname with an estimated 263,622 people with that name. 2 However, in Canada, the name Gray is ranked the 116th most popular surname with an estimated 25,831 people with that name. 3 And in Newfoundland, Canada, the name Gray is the 674th popular surname with an estimated 65 people with that name. 4 Australia ranks Gray as 65th with 34,959 people. 5 New Zealand ranks Gray as 44th with 5,402 people. 6 The United Kingdom ranks Gray as 66th with 68,615 people. 7

Migration of the Gray family to Ireland

Some of the Gray family moved to Ireland, but this topic is not covered in this excerpt.
Another 60 words (4 lines of text) about their life in Ireland is included in all our PDF Extended History products and printed products wherever possible.


Gray migration to the United States +

Some of the Boernician-Scottish Clan families who came to North America were Loyalists who went north to Canada after the American War of Independence. Families on both sides of the border went on to found two of the world's great nations. This century, families with Scottish roots have rediscovered their heritage through highland games and clan societies. An inquiry into the early roots of North American families reveals a number of immigrants bearing the name Gray or a variant listed above:

Gray Settlers in United States in the 17th Century
  • Abraham Gray, who landed in America in 1620 8
  • Thomas Gray, who landed in Massachusetts in 1624 aboard the ship "Zouch Phoenix" 9
  • Stephen Gray, who landed in Maryland in 1634-1641 8
  • Mr. Francis Gray, aged 15, who arrived in Virginia in 1635 aboard the ship "Plain Joan" 9
  • Francis Gray who settled in Virginia in 1635 with his wife Alice
  • ... (More are available in all our PDF Extended History products and printed products wherever possible.)
Gray Settlers in United States in the 18th Century
  • Sarah Gray, who landed in Virginia in 1722 8
Gray Settlers in United States in the 19th Century
  • Walter Gray, who landed in New York, NY in 1811 8
  • William Gray, who arrived in Charleston, South Carolina in 1813 8
  • Zachariah Gray, who landed in New York in 1834 8
  • Adam Gray, who arrived in Allegany (Allegheny) County, Pennsylvania in 1836 8
  • Adolph Gray, aged 36, who arrived in Missouri in 1840 8
  • ... (More are available in all our PDF Extended History products and printed products wherever possible.)

Gray migration to Canada +

Some of the first settlers of this family name were:

Gray Settlers in Canada in the 18th Century
  • Mr. James Gray U.E. who arrived at Port Roseway [Shelburne], Nova Scotia on October 26, 1783 was passenger number 200 aboard the ship "HMS Clinton", picked up on September 28, 1783 at Staten Island, New York 10
  • Mr. John Gray U.E. who settled in Eastern District [Cornwall], Ontario c. 1784 10
  • Mr. John Gray U.E. who settled in New Brunswick c. 1784 10
  • Mr. Joseph Gray U.E. (b. 1729) born in Massachusetts, USA from Boston, Massachusetts, USA who settled in Halifax, Nova Scotia c. 1784 he died in 1803, married to Mary Gerrish they had 13 children 10
  • Mr. Justus Gray U.E. who settled in New Brunswick c. 1784 10
  • ... (More are available in all our PDF Extended History products and printed products wherever possible.)
Gray Settlers in Canada in the 19th Century
  • George Gray, aged 60, a farmer, who arrived in Quebec aboard the ship "Edinburgh" in 1815
  • Isobel Gray, aged 43, who arrived in Quebec aboard the ship "Edinburgh" in 1815
  • Isobel Gray, aged 18, who arrived in Quebec aboard the ship "Edinburgh" in 1815
  • Margaret Gray, aged 14, who arrived in Quebec aboard the ship "Edinburgh" in 1815
  • Ann Gray, aged 13, who arrived in Quebec aboard the ship "Edinburgh" in 1815
  • ... (More are available in all our PDF Extended History products and printed products wherever possible.)

Gray migration to Australia +

Emigration to Australia followed the First Fleets of convicts, tradespeople and early settlers. Early immigrants include:

Gray Settlers in Australia in the 18th Century
Gray Settlers in Australia in the 19th Century
  • Mr. Samuel Gray, British convict who was convicted in Surrey, England for 7 years, transported aboard the "Calcutta" in February 1803, arriving in New South Wales, Australia 12
  • Mr. James Gray, British Convict who was convicted in Surrey, England for 7 years, transported aboard the "Batavia" in October 1817, arriving in New South Wales, Australia 13
  • Mr. William Gray, English convict who was convicted in Surrey, England for 7 years, transported aboard the "Canada" on 23rd April 1819, arriving in New South Wales, Australia 14
  • Mr. James Gray, English convict who was convicted in Middlesex, England for life, transported aboard the "Dromedary" on 11th September 1819, arriving in Tasmania (Van Diemen's Land) 15
  • Mr. Charles Gray, English convict who was convicted in Reading, Berkshire, England for 7 years, transported aboard the "Claudine" on 20th May 1821, arriving in Tasmania (Van Diemen's Land) 16
  • ... (More are available in all our PDF Extended History products and printed products wherever possible.)

Gray migration to New Zealand +

Emigration to New Zealand followed in the footsteps of the European explorers, such as Captain Cook (1769-70): first came sealers, whalers, missionaries, and traders. By 1838, the British New Zealand Company had begun buying land from the Maori tribes, and selling it to settlers, and, after the Treaty of Waitangi in 1840, many British families set out on the arduous six month journey from Britain to Aotearoa to start a new life. Early immigrants include:

Gray Settlers in New Zealand in the 19th Century
  • George Gray, who landed in Wellington, New Zealand in 1840
  • Benjamin Gray, aged 23, a farm labourer, who arrived in Wellington, New Zealand aboard the ship "Clifton" in 1842
  • Emma Gray, aged 21, who arrived in Wellington, New Zealand aboard the ship "Clifton" in 1842
  • Joseph Gray, aged 1, who arrived in Wellington, New Zealand aboard the ship "Clifton" in 1842
  • Christina Gray, aged 22, a servant, who arrived in Nelson, New Zealand aboard the ship "Bombay" in 1842 17
  • ... (More are available in all our PDF Extended History products and printed products wherever possible.)

Gray migration to West Indies +

The British first settled the British West Indies around 1604. They made many attempts but failed in some to establish settlements on the Islands including Saint Lucia and Grenada. By 1627 they had managed to establish settlements on St. Kitts (St. Christopher) and Barbados, but by 1641 the Spanish had moved in and destroyed some of these including those at Providence Island. The British continued to expand the settlements including setting the First Federation in the British West Indies by 1674; some of the islands include Barbados, Bermuda, Cayman Island, Turks and Caicos, Jamaica and Belize then known as British Honduras. By the 1960's many of the islands became independent after the West Indies Federation which existed from 1958 to 1962 failed due to internal political conflicts. After this a number of Eastern Caribbean islands formed a free association. 18
Gray Settlers in West Indies in the 17th Century
  • Mr. Edward Gray, (b. 1603), aged 32, British settler traveling aboard the ship "Paul of London" arriving in St Christopher (Saint Kitts) in 1635 19
  • Robert Gray, who settled in Barbados in 1680 with his wife and servants

Contemporary Notables of the name Gray (post 1700) +

  • Walter J. Gray (1928-2024), American politician, Member of the Rhode Island Senate from 1991 to 1995
  • Alfred Mason Gray Jr. (1928-2024), American Marine Corps four-star general
  • Theodore Milton "Ted" Gray (1927-2024), American Republican politician, Member of the Ohio Senate (1951-1994)
  • Clayland Boyden Gray (1943-2023), American lawyer and diplomat who served as White House Counsel from 1989 to 1993 and as U.S. Ambassador to the European Union from 2006 to 2007
  • Claude Gray (1932-2023), American country music singer-songwriter and guitar picker best known for his 1960 hit "Family Bible" and "I'll Just Have a Cup of Coffee (Then I'll Go)"
  • Freddie Carlos Gray Jr. (1989-2015), American man arrested by the Baltimore Police Department for possessing what the police alleged was an illegal switchblade; he fell into a coma and was taken to a trauma center and later died
  • Kenneth Don "Ken" Gray (1936-2017), American NFL offensive guard who played 13 seasons from 1958 through 1970
  • Paul Edward Gray (1932-2017), American academic, 14th President of the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (1980-1990)
  • Duncan Montgomery Gray Jr., (1926-2016), American cleric, the 7th Bishop of the Episcopal Diocese of Mississippi
  • Mark Eugene Gray (1952-2016), American country music artist
  • ... (Another 49 notables are available in all our PDF Extended History products and printed products wherever possible.)

Arrow Air Flight 1285
  • Mr. Christopher Gray (1966-1985), American Specialist 4th Class from Alvarado, Texas, USA who died in the Arrow Air Flight 1285 crash 20
Empress of Ireland
  • Mr. Whit William Gray, British Assistant Steward from United Kingdom who worked aboard the Empress of Ireland (1914) and survived the sinking 21
  • Mr. Arthur Gray, British Assistant Saloon Steward from United Kingdom who worked aboard the Empress of Ireland (1914) and survived the sinking 21
  • Miss Mary Gray (1909-1914), American Second Class Passenger from Terre Haute, Wisconsin, United States who was traveling aboard the Empress of Ireland and died in the sinking 22
  • Mr. Edwin Gray (1889-1914), Canadian Second Class Passenger from Toronto, Ontario, Canada who was traveling aboard the Empress of Ireland and died in the sinking 22
  • Mrs. Madeline Gray (1880-1914), née Shirt American Second Class Passenger from Terre Haute, Wisconsin, United States who was traveling aboard the Empress of Ireland and died in the sinking 22
Halifax Explosion
Hillcrest Coal Mine
  • Mr. James F Gray (1874-1914), Canadian Miner from Nova Scotia, Canada who worked in the Hillcrest Coal Mine, Alberta, Canada and died in the mine collapse 24
HMS Hood
  • Mr. John C Gray (b. 1922), English Ordinary Seaman serving for the Royal Navy from Richmond, Surrey, England, who sailed into battle and died in the HMS Hood sinking 25
  • Mr. Alfred E E Gray (b. 1902), English Able Seaman serving for the Royal Navy from Southwark, Hampshire, England, who sailed into battle and died in the HMS Hood sinking 25
HMS Prince of Wales
  • Mr. Colin Alexander Gray, British Marine, who sailed into battle on the HMS Prince of Wales (1941) and survived the sinking 26
HMS Repulse
  • Mr. Dennis Gray, "Dolly" British Able Bodied Seaman, who sailed into battle on the HMS Repulse (1941) and survived the sinking 27
  • Mr. Henry Harold Gray, British Chief Engine Artificer, who sailed into battle on the HMS Repulse (1941) and died in the sinking 27
HMS Royal Oak
  • Harry Walker Gray (1917-1939), British Seaman with the Royal Navy aboard the HMS Royal Oak (1939) when she was torpedoed by U-47 and sunk; he died in the sinking 28
  • Edward Gray (1910-1939), British Able Seaman with the Royal Navy aboard the HMS Royal Oak (1939) when she was torpedoed by U-47 and sunk; he died in the sinking 28
  • Alexander Simpson Gray (d. 1939), British Boy 1st Class with the Royal Navy aboard the HMS Royal Oak (1939) when she was torpedoed by U-47 and sunk; he died in the sinking 28
Ibrox disaster
  • James Graham Gray (1934-1971), Scottish football supporter, from Lanarkshire who was at the Ibrox disaster on 2nd January 1971 when a human crush among the crowd killed 66 and injured 200 people he died of his injuries 29
RMS Lusitania
  • Master Stuart James Gray, American 2nd Class passenger from Los Angeles, California, USA, who sailed aboard the RMS Lusitania (1915) and died in the sinking 30
  • Mrs. Terence Florence Gray, American 2nd Class passenger from Los Angeles, California, USA, who sailed aboard the RMS Lusitania (1915) and died in the sinking 30
  • Mr. James Paul Gray, American 2nd Class passenger from Oakland, California, USA, who sailed aboard the RMS Lusitania (1915) and survived the sinking by escaping on an overturned collapsible 30
  • Mr. Robert Duncan Gray, English 2nd Class passenger residing in Brooklyn, New York, USA, who sailed aboard the RMS Lusitania (1915) and survived the sinking 31
USS Arizona
  • Mr. James V. Gray, American Seaman First Class working aboard the ship "USS Arizona" when she sunk during the Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor on 7th December 1941, he survived the sinking 32
  • Mr. Albert James Gray, American Seaman First Class from Washington, USA working aboard the ship "USS Arizona" when she sunk during the Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor on 7th December 1941, he died in the sinking 32
  • Mr. Lawrence Moore Gray, American Fireman First Class from Missouri, USA working aboard the ship "USS Arizona" when she sunk during the Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor on 7th December 1941, he died in the sinking 32
  • Mr. William James Gray Jr., American Seaman First Class from California, USA working aboard the ship "USS Arizona" when she sunk during the Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor on 7th December 1941, he died in the sinking 32
USS Indianapolis
  • Willis Leroy Gray (1914-1960), American crew member on board the ship "USS Indianapolis" when she was on a top secret trip for the first nuclear weapon, she was sunk by Japanese Navy on 30th July 1945, he survived the sinking 33


The Gray Motto +

The motto was originally a war cry or slogan. Mottoes first began to be shown with arms in the 14th and 15th centuries, but were not in general use until the 17th century. Thus the oldest coats of arms generally do not include a motto. Mottoes seldom form part of the grant of arms: Under most heraldic authorities, a motto is an optional component of the coat of arms, and can be added to or changed at will; many families have chosen not to display a motto.

Motto: Anchor fast anchor


Suggested Readings for the name Gray +

  • Direct Ancestors of the Parker and Gray Families by Elizabeth Gray Parker.
  • A Family History, Gray-Avery and Related Families by Lewis and Ruby Gray.

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